When you encounter uncomfortable conversations...

There are always people who can make you feel really uneasy at convos
some act overly defensive which makes them very offensive
some are very eager to show that they are special and they tend to be quite combative in words as to emphasize their outstanding and stately outlook for things
some just simply spit out hostile opinions just to make you feel bad

I believe all the above actions are resulted from the lack of confidence and also jealousy of others

I am not mature enough to deal with these situations
I still get upset or mad whenever people act the way I mentioned
I understand that I cannot change people
Therefore I am putting this down just to remind myself NOT to behave like this
just because this is
...not classy...

Activism vs Pessimism

I swear by the saying "性格決定命運"

at the end of the day
it's you who make those decisions
it's you who can make changes to your life

Quote #5 from 二十幾歳，決定女人的一生

不幸開始於妳沒有信心擺脫不幸的想法
聰明的女人會找出自己不幸的與原因
懂得擺脫不幸
譲自己重新站起來
同時
她們也懂得追求幸福
就必須放棄難以割捨的東西

Generalist-to-be

I may not have found my passion yet
but I do know what I want to become

Quote #4 from 二十幾歳，決定女人的一生

知道多少就能看到多少
看到多少就能想到多少
想到多少就能掌控多少
二十多歳的人
不論從精神、物質、還是時間上
都不足以游刃有餘
因此
首先要多讀書
開闊自己的眼界
將來才能掌控更多的東西

Quotes from 二十幾歳，決定女人的一生

Quote #3:

聰明的女人會對自己嚴格
但不會對自己苛刻

About Passion

I want to find my passion in life
outside my family, boyfriend and friends
I want to be devoted, totally

yet to be discovered

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Currently reading: 羅斯傑給女兒的十二封信

Quote #1:

當你發現有一件事是你感興趣的
別譲年齢牽絆你
去做就是了